Dog Sitting Dilemma – Dealing with a Dog That Doesn’t Like Other Dogs

This past weekend I had the pleasure of dog sitting my sister’s dog Riley. Riley is a 6-year-old Cavalier King Charles Spaniel and one of the sweetest dogs you’ll ever meet. She loves to lie around and generally do nothing, but she also likes a lot of petting and attention.

This is Riley. She wants to sit with you.
One of Riley’s quirks is that she doesn’t think she is a dog. She’s not really interested in toys or playing, or anything a lot of dogs like to do. I don’t think she was introduced to dogs when she was younger, so she has never really been socialized in the dog world. She is also older, so she is used to a more sedentary lifestyle. My dog Hunter, as you may have gathered from past posts, is the exact opposite. He loves dogs, activity and people. The only thing the dogs have in common is that they like attention, and they like to follow me around everywhere. So Hunter does his best to get Riley to play, while Riley does her best to ignore him.
Riley trying to ignore Hunter


I decided to spend the first couple of days staying at my sister’s house with the two dogs. At least that way Riley wouldn’t have the double stress of being in an unfamiliar setting and having to deal with being around a dog she doesn’t like. Luckily Riley has a very laid back temperament, so things have gone fairly well between the two dogs. They’ve pretty much been ignoring each other with just a few minor scuffles when Hunter remembers Riley is there and tries to get her to play.

Not all dogs are so easy going though. Dealing with socializing a dog can be a challenging endeavor. The Animal Humane Society provides tips on their site for introducing a new dog to a resident dog*. Good advice to follow the next time you have a new dog in your family, or will have a dog staying with you:

1. Have the dogs meet on-leash on neutral territory first:  this can be a neighbor’s yard, a training center, tennis court, etc.  Have both dogs on-leash.  Allow them to look at and sniff one another through a barrier, such as a fence, for up to 30 minutes.  By then, the novelty of seeing a new dog has worn off, paving the way for a more positive introduction.  Another option is to take the dogs for a walk together, keeping ten feet between them so that they cannot greet one another or stare.  The idea is simply to acclimate them to each other’s presence without causing tension.

2. Next, have the dogs meet off-leash on neutral territory.  Avoid problem areas like gates, doorways or closely confined space:  the more room they have to move, the less tension there will be.  Wait 2 minutes while they sniff each other, then call them away and move around.  If they start to play and it seems to be going well, let them play for a few minutes and then end the session.  We want each initial interaction to end on a good note!

3. Finally, have the dogs meet at home:  first in the yard, then inside the house.  Before the in-house introduction, take the resident dog out to the yard, then bring new dog inside (bringing the new dog inside to meet resident dog can create a negative reaction).  Keep each interaction short and pleasant: if signs of tension arise, separate the dogs immediately and try again later.  Remember that the introduction will set the tone for their relationship, so it’s important to set everyone up for success!

4. Keep the dogs separate while you are away, either in separate rooms or crates.  This is both to prevent injurious fights and the development of inappropriate behavior in your new dog (such as chewing and housesoiling).

5. While the dogs can settle minor disputes with each other (such as growling the other off of a toy or their own food bowl), they aren’t allowed to limit each other’s access to you, your family and common areas of the home.  In many multi-dog households, contrary to popular belief, there is neither a “dominant” nor a “submissive” dog, but individuals whose roles change depending on the context involved (ex: a dog that claims access to a favorite toy may let another dog claim the couch).  Instead of “supporting the dominance” of any one dog, establish yourself as a benevolent leader, rewarding polite behavior and managing the environment to prevent conflicts from developing.

Hey! You’re a dog – let’s play!

What about you? Do you have a dog that doesn’t like other dogs and have you tried to socialize him or her? Hit me up on twitter ( or email with what has worked (or not worked) for you!


Dog day at the beach

I recently took my dog to check out two local doggie beaches. The two dog friendly beaches that I know of, Columbia Rd. Beach in Bay Village and Bow Wow Doggie Beach in Stow, offer very different experiences for dogs, but my dog had a blast at both.

Columbia Rd. Beach
I didn’t know about this beach until a Dogs in the CLE reader informed me of its existence (I LOVE reader tips, hint hint). It seemed to be one of those hidden spots that no one really talks about much. Located where Columbia Rd. dead ends into Lake Rd., this dog-friendly area is a great place to take your dog on a casual stroll on the beach or play a little catch. I took my dog on a Monday in the early afternoon and it wasn’t too crowded. Considering that it’s not a very large stretch of the beach, I imagine it could get crowded during peak times though.

The sign out front requests that dogs stay on leash, but most of the dogs that I saw there were off leash. It is kinda hard to play catch with a dog on a leash, so it’s understandable most weren’t. However, as always, use caution if you want to take your dog off leash. Especially if it’s his or her first time at a beach since many dogs tend to run when scared. The beach is not fenced in and if you have a runner she could pretty easily take off. All in all, I would say Columbia Rd. is a great place to introduce your dog to the beach, since you can leisurely take a stroll and let him test out the waters in a fairly contained area.

Bow Wow Beach

Once you’ve introduced your dog to the beach at Columbia Rd., the next step is to take him to Bow Wow Beach. This is the ultimate in doggie beaches. Located in Silver Springs Park off of Stow Rd., the 7.5 acre beach offers several different fenced in areas for small or large dogs, a dog agility course, a dock jumping area and doggie wash area. I have to admit I was a little overwhelmed when I took my dog. The park is huge and there are dogs running free everywhere. I was glad to see that there was a fenced in small dog area that was actually fairly big and contained actual small dogs. This area is fenced in away from the lake, but it’s a good spot to go if your small dog needs a break or doesn’t love the water. I also learned later that main area surrounding the lake is the large dog area, and that there is a small dog area with lake access as well right by the other small dog area.

Besides the lake, there is a dog agility course (that no one used when I was there) and lots of open space for your dog to roam around. The beach is all fenced in, but there is A LOT of space, so you might want to make sure you’ve practiced your “come” command before letting your dog off leash here.

Swimming tips

I’ve been told that all dogs instinctively know how to “doggie paddle” but I took it slow and let my dog test out the waters. He wasn’t too into it at first, but was definitely curious. He was much more into it the next time, splashing around and chasing dogs in the water. I kept him on leash for our visits, but next time I will try off leash with these tips* from the AKC about how to make sure your dog can swim. Or, maybe I’ll get him a stylish life vest. Just don’t judge me if you see us out at the beach.

  • Never throw your dog into the water.
  • Start in shallow water, and call your dog’s name. You can also try to coax him in with a treat or toy – but always keep your dog within reach.
  • Another way to introduce your dog to the water is with a dog that already swims and is friendly with your dog. Let your dog follow his friend.
  • If your dog begins to doggy-paddle with his front legs only, lift his hind legs and help him float. He should quickly catch on and will then keep his back end up.
  • Swimming is a great form of exercise, but don’t let your dog overdo it. He will be using new muscles and may tire quickly.
  • Be careful of strong tides that are hazardous for even the best swimmers.
  • Never leave your dog unattended! You should always be in a position to help him get out of the water


Are there any other beach areas you take your dog? I’ve also heard of dogs at Edgewater, and seen a few at Rocky River Park, but I don’t think those are officially dog friendly. Email me at if you know of any others!

The 4th of July is Probably Not Your Dog’s Favorite Holiday

Sorry to break it to you, but it’s true. A holiday focused on loud noises, crowds and sitting outside in the heat is probably not your dog’s favorite day. Chances are your dog does something like this once the fireworks start:

(check out these photos from The Huffington Post for more dogs not happy about fireworks:

The 4th of July can be a very scary time for a dog. To help make the day a little less stressful for your dog, here are some of Cesar Milan’s* (I’ve been watching a lot of The Dog Whisperer lately, sorry) top tips for dealing with dogs and fireworks:

1) Take your dog on a long walk before the fireworks start. Plan at least a 2 mile walk or whatever would be a significant jump up from what you normally do. If you can wear him out before the fireworks start, chances are high that he will be too tired to focus on the fireworks.

2) Distract your dog during the fireworks. Work on obedience training or give him a toy to keep him busy. Basically get him focused on something other than the fireworks.

3) Use your dog’s nose. Scents like lavender and pine help a dog to feel relaxed.

4) Maintain a calm and assertive energy. Although no one does this as well as Cesar, this is always good advice. Don’t get stressed out or angry with the dog for being upset. The negative emotions will just encourage the dog’s anxiety.

5) Use canine-safe earplugs. Dogs have good reason to not love fireworks, they are extremely loud and disturbing to their very sensitive ears. If you can mitigate the noise, you should be able to minimize your dog’s anxiety.

I hope everyone has a wonderful and safe 4th of July! If you take any fun 4th of July-themed dog pictures, make sure to send them to

*See all of Cesar’s tips here:

What to with your dog in July

Now that the summer is in full swing, it’s time to focus our attention on all of the dog friendly events coming up this month. It won’t be long until we’re all back to being trapped indoors, trying to find ways to keep our dogs active when it’s too cold to go outside. Now is the time to enjoy some time with your dog outside!

Here’s a rundown of some of best dog events this month:

July 2
Kick off the month with “Bark in the Park” at the Lake County Captains game vs. the Lansing Lugnuts. Purchase a $5 “pooch pass” for your dog and a portion of the proceeds will go to local animal charities. “Dawg Night” will also feature appearances by former Cleveland Browns’ players and a Webkinz plush dog giveaway for the first 500 kids under 12. Purchase tickets at

July 6
Although this isn’t an outdoor event, it’s still worth a mention. Bring your dog to the Gladiators’ game for “Helmets and Hounds” and enjoy some local arena football action starting at 7 p.m. Tickets are $15 for Humans (in advance)  $5 for Dogs and can be purchased at A portion of the proceeds will go the Lake Humane Society.  At the game there will be also be drink specials and a post game field party.

July 11
Looking to make some new dog friends? Make your way to Sunny Lake Park in Aurora for a 2 mile walk around the boathouse pavilion. The Freedom Fairweather Walkers will meet at 6:45 p.m. for the leisurely walk. They will even have dogs on hand to walk for anyone who doesn’t have a dog of their own. Just call ahead so one can be arranged for you – 330-562-0555. The event which is held monthly April-October is organized by the Freedom Greyhound Rescue of Aurora, but all breeds are welcome.

July 21
The 2nd Annual Woodmere Wag Tail is a free dog friendly event organized by Get Pets Wet, the Brook Park-based supplier of dog water safety products. The “Wag Tail” will feature vendors, a DJ, Swifty the Clown and demonstrations. Starting at 10 a.m. and going until 4 p.m., the event will be held at the Village Square Shopping Center in Woodmere.

Don’t forget to check out the events calendar for more July activities!CAKE-GALLERY/cwvn

How I learned to stop worrying and enjoy the dog park

One of my dog’s favorite activities is going to the dog park. The dog park encompasses everything he loves – attention from humans, attention from dogs and the space to run free. Oh, and dirt to roll around in. I can’t forget the dirt, that might be his favorite.

It wasn’t always a walk in the park (pardon the pun) though, at least for me. Being the owner of a small dog can make the dog park a nerve wracking place. Before getting my dog I had never been to a dog park. I had no idea what to expect; no idea what normal dog play was. The first time a dog began playing with my dog, I was terrified he’d get hurt. And I didn’t know how to tell if my dog liked it or not. I didn’t want my fearfulness to rub off on my dog, making him cowardly. So I did my best to keep a close eye, while also giving him some space.


Over time through trial and error I learned a few things that have helped make the experience less stressful for me, and hopefully also my dog.


1) Try to go to the park at the same time. I don’t know what it is – the fluffiness, the darting around running in circles – but my dog attracts a lot of attention when he comes into a new group of dogs. At the dog park that I go to, the Lakewood Dog Park, there are a lot of regulars at the time I arrive. My dog is pretty well known by this particular group, so the dogs are used to him and he doesn’t have to “introduce” himself each time.


2) Keep your dog away from the gate. The most stressful time for a dog is entering the park. Some dogs want to establish their dominance right away, so if your dog is all up in another dog’s grill, the potential for a fight to start is high.


3) Dogs don’t play like humans. Dogs like to bite at each other, roll around and sometimes even growl. I found this article to be helpful to determine what is normal play:


4) Keep an eye on your dog! This one is more for others, than something I’ve learned to do. I love watching my dog at the park (and I’m a worrier by nature, so I have to be able to see what he’d doing) so I pretty much never take my eyes off of him. But a lot of times I see owners buried in their phones, oblivious to what their dog is doing. Or, even worse, someone who has just dropped their dog off and left. Problems can erupt quickly, it’s important for your dog’s safety and the safety of other dogs that you are aware of what he or she up to.


5) And lastly, have fun! The dog park is also a great place for you to bond with your dog through play.



Yappy hours

After work happy hours have pretty much become a thing of the past since getting my dog. I feel bad enough leaving my dog all day when I’m at work, so leaving him for another two hours is pretty much out of the question.
Thank goodness for yappy hours! I feel much better about going out on a weekday when I can bring my dog. And added bonus – most of these yappy hours donate a portion of the proceeds to local animal rescue organizations.
Here are some of the ones that I’ve found, let me know if you know of any others (
Tremont tap house
The Tap House holds its yappy hour on the third Tuesday of every month from 4-9 pm. A dollar from every draft beer sold will be donated to PAWS and although they celebrate rain or shine, if it’s raining you may want to leave your dog at home as they’re not allowed inside.
Sunset Grille on Whiskey Island
Sunset Grille’s Yappy Hour, hosted by Q104’s own Average Joe, will be held on three Tuesdays this summer – June 25, July 23 and Aug. 6. All dogs must be on a leash. In addition to drink specials, Sunset Grille also provides treats for your dog.
The Winery at Wolf Creek
Throughout the summer The Winery at Wolf Creek will host Yappy Hours on the second Tuesday of each month from 5:00–8:00 p.m. on the lawn. Proceeds benefit GivePetsAChance. Tickets are $10 per person at the door and include a raffle entry, a glass of wine, and goodies for your dog ($5 per person for non-drinkers includes a soda or bottle of water).

Quaker Steak & Lube
This one is held every Saturday from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m., supporting the Lakewood Animal Shelter. So not only do you get to celebrate a rare weekend happy hour with drink and food specials, you get to contribute to a worthy cause!

Pet-Tique Summer Yappy Hour
This year’s summer yappy hour will be held Thursday, June 27 from 5:00-8:00pm at Pet-Tique in Lakewood.  Pets are welcome at the yappy hour which benefits Tails From The City, a non-profit, no-kill, all volunteer shelter. A $5 donation is suggested and beer, wine and food will be provided. A raffle will also be held to benefit the shelter.

CLE Dog Runs

One of the things I’ve tried to wear out my very active dog is running together. The time I got him to run 2 miles with me was one of my favorite days ever. Of course, it hasn’t happened again, but I’m hopeful! When your dog likes to sniff every last blade of grass and say hi to everyone he passes, getting him to run for more than a minute can be challenging.

I’ve found several dog-friendly races this summer to inspire me to train my dog to be a runner. These events have been added to the calendar – check it out for more info, along with info on other CLE dog events this summer:!CAKE-GALLERY/cwvn

Saturday July 6
Muddy Paws 10 Mile Run, 5 Mile Run, 2 Mile Dog Run

Satuday July 20
Dirty Dog Run, Walk or Wash – 5K run, 1 mile dog run
Avon Lake

Saturday Sept. 21
Nature Center Hike & Run – 1-Mile Pet Friendly Hike for Families Hike along the Nature Center trails
Nature Center at Shaker Lakes

Sunday Sept. 29
16th Annual Tom Madzy Short Run and Family Dog Walk

Sunday Oct. 13
Berea ARF’s MONSTER MUTT DASH –  Pets can participate in both the race and afterparty event.

Saturday Nov. 2
Eaton-Euclid 5K Walk/Run and 1.5-Mile Doggie Dash – special awards given to dogs

Know of any other dog friendly races? Send me an email at